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Everyday Spirituality -3: FROM DUALISTIC TO HOLISTIC SPIRITUALITY

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Finding God in Everything

Jesuit Saint John Berchmans’ rector wrote the following about the young saint after his death:

“What we universally admired in him was that in all the virtues he showed himself perfect and that, with the aid of divine grace to which he responded to his utmost, he performed all his actions with all the perfection that can be imagined” (in Au & Cannon, Urgings of the Heart, 1995, p. 67; emphasis added).

The above description of John Berchmans is a reflection of the understanding of holiness in vogue for many centuries. Holiness was all about being perfect! In this understanding, holiness would appear an impossible ideal for us weak, flawed human beings. Thankfully, notions of holiness have changed.

Several developments in science and philosophy in the last hundred years undermined what was known as the mechanistic-dualistic paradigm (see May issue of Magnet) and paved the way for the emergence of a new one – the Holistic paradigm.


Fr Jose Parappully SDB

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Vocation Stories

Chosen in Love, I follow the Lord

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The vocation story and personal reflections of a young teaching Sister.

Why be a Religious?

I believe that vocation to religious life is like a sapling which needs to be planted, watered, pruned and tended. It requires constant attention and nurturing.  Life is a constant flow with unexpected changes and transitions; this is so true in the present situation of Covid-19 pandemic. This critical period has made us all reflect on the way we have lived our lives. I want to do something similar with regard to my religious vocation.

I have had the opportunity to look into my past and see how God has blessed me abundantly and I have grown in deep gratitude and look ahead with more confidence. In the light of that gratitude and confidence, I ask myself: Why am I a religious? To what way of life was I called? How did I know? These questions transported me back to my exciting initial call.


Sukirtha Kulandai PBVM

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Moving to the margins

HEROIC, UTTERLY SIMPLE…AND UNKNOWN!

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December 10, 1979: Mother Teresa wins the Nobel Prize for Peace!

A few days preceding the award ceremony, Mother Teresa wrote to her sisters: On the evening of 5th December – I will leave for Rome and on the 7th we will have the professions there. On the 8th I will be in Oslo, God willing. As the Nobel Peace Prize Committee have sent two more tickets besides the one for me, and above all as a mark of love and gratitude to all our sisters of the first group for having the courage to join when there was nothing, the joy of having nothing & yet possessing Jesus to the full & because they loved Jesus they loved the poor, so I will be taking Sr M Agnes and Sr M Gertrude with me to Oslo.

But, I’m sorry to disappoint you. If you are expecting another article about Mother Teresa, this is not about her. As much as I love her, admire her and follow the charism she was given, I believe there is somebody who in my opinion is “greater” than Mother Teresa. Mother heard the Voice of God telling her to leave everything and take Him to the dark holes of the poorest of the poor. It was a clear voice, a strong order which she had to heed and obey. Deep inside her soul, Mother “knew” what it was and where it came from. She knew what she had to do. She had no doubts. Shubashini Das–better known inside the Congregation of the Missionaries of Charity as Sr. Agnes—did not hear any voice. No inspiration was hers. Hers was a total trust and blind faith in Mother. We do not know whether Mother ever talked about the Voice and Vision she received from God to young Sr Agnes, yet she believed without seeing. The day Shubashini Das joined Mother on that March 19, 1949—just a few months after Mother Teresa came out of Loreto—at 14, Creek Lane (where she was given a room), there was NOTHING.

[1] Mother Teresa’s letter to the Congregation dated November 21, 1979, unpublished, copyright Mother Teresa Centre.


Carmel Duca MC

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Finance

FINANCIAL PLANNING FOR COVID TIMES

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Extra-ordinary Times

We are living in extra-ordinary times, with high uncertainty about the future. Anxiety and fear are mounting by the day. There is an increasing sense of helplessness, without much sight of the light at the end of the tunnel. Most spheres of life have been disturbed and affected. All plans, calculations, dreams, have gone topsy-turvy. The ongoing lockdowns have resulted in reduced business, job loss, dwindling  pay checks, migration of labour, fear of hunger, fear of death, growing incidence of depression and suicides, … a worrisome situation. No one knows when this pandemic and its collateral effects will end.


Fr Trevor D’Souza OFM

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Meeting God

DISCOVERING GOD AS ONE’S TRUE LOVE AND SUPPORT

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Inspired by the enthusiasm of a campus youth group, this young woman discovers the beauty of faith, goes as a missionary to Assam, finds answers to intense loneliness, and discovers God as her one and never-failing love. She has some good suggestions for church personnel.–Editor

 You are a member of Jesus Youth. Why? What does being a JY mean for you?

My call to Jesus Youth Movement was a very special choice from God. During the initial days of my college, I came across a very different and vibrant group of youth who always radiated an extraordinary and exceptional kind of energy which I had noticed in no other group. As the days went by and I became more familiar with my college and its normal life, I came to know about the Jesus Youth team in the college and, surprisingly, this energetic folk were the active members of the JY group. Then I realized the cause of their distinct characteristics.  I too was attracted to that movement.  Eventually I became an active member of the group. Later on, I was elected as a campus coordinator of Jesus Youth.   Since then, JY has been continuously forming and moulding me in such a way to get to know my Lord in a very personal way. JY gave regular formation for being committed to Jesus and a life-style which is focused on personal prayer, sacraments and the Word of God. Being a Jesus Youth always reminds me to radiate the youthfulness of Jesus.


Malu Thomas

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Interview

MODEL OF SIMPLICITY AS A BISHOP, NOW AN ASSISTANT PARISH PRIEST

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We felt inspired—just as we think the readers will—to read the words of BISHOP SEBASTIANAPPAN SINGAROYAN, the former bishop of Salem, Tamilnadu, known for his simplicity of life and closeness to the people. He resigned before time, and asked to become an assistant parish priest in a village.—The Editors

Dear Bishop Singaroyan, even before your dramatic decision to resign and become an assistant parish priest, you were known and admired for your simple lifestyle (walking or cycling to visit Anbiyams and families, keeping your personal life very simple, etc.). What led you to love a simple life?

I hail from a simple agricultural family. From childhood I have been engaged in the agricultural works along with my parents and my brothers. Two hours of work in the field in the morning before going to school and two hours of work after returning from the school in the evening was the daily schedule. Being brought up in an ordinary life situation, it has gone deep in my personality to be simple, down to earth, people-friendly and hard-working all the time. I have remained what I am made up of, even in different situations later during my priestly ministry in parishes, higher studies in Rome, pastoral ministry in foreign counties, being a professor of theology in a major seminary and later being the Bishop of Salem Diocese for nineteen years.  It is an inborn simplicity, preserved consciously all along.

Does the life-style of leaders (bishops, major superiors etc.) matter much for our ministry? How?

In case of ministry of a leader in the Church (bishops. major superiors etc.) his / her life-style is most effective—and more eloquent than his/her knowledge, efficiency and talents in leading the church communities. What is seen is more attractive than what is said. We have seen that several people in leadership with exceptional talents and extraordinary intellectual capacities have performed very poorly because of their inappropriate life-style. Hence life-style is an important hallmark of Christian leadership.

You must have been inspired by some particular persons or by some deep personal experience. Who are they and what are they?

In my schooldays I had a mathematics teacher in my school, who inspired me to live for others. Later, as a priest and bishop, Pope John Paul II, whom I had the chance to meet personally several times, was my inspirer. His deep spiritual life, hard work, zeal for evangelization, clarity of thought and great human qualities set my heart on fire to be and do at least something of what he was and what he did.  My three short meetings with him during the preparation of my doctoral thesis in Rome on the ongoing formation of priests, inspired me to dedicate my life for the wellbeing of priests.

What are the main expectations of the people from Church leaders?

People expect church leaders to be living examples of what they are called to preach and do. Every church leader should be able to say like St. Paul: “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1). They expect church leaders to demonstrate good human virtues, like honesty, humility, fair play, transparency, availability and commitment to the cause. The deficiency in these human qualities destroys the effectiveness of the great works the church leaders do with excellent wisdom using all modern techniques.

What are we doing well as the church personnel (bishops, major superiors, priests and religious)?

There is so much spiritual, personal and material good that the Church leaders have been doing all along. It cannot all be narrated here. I mention a few in our context. Exemplary faith, committed life and effective ministry of many church leaders are to be appreciated. Our leadership in the field of education, health care, socio-economic development of the downtrodden people, is to be given credit. Pioneering efforts in the people or community-based ministries like insertion communities in the midst of the poor and vulnerable people are relevant. Liturgical and pastoral celebrations strengthen the life of the people.

Where are we failing and need to change?

Our ministry and leadership is still to a great extent institution- and structure-based. When the structure functions to their expectation, the leaders seem to be satisfied, without seriously assessing whether the structure has served its purpose for which it was established by the founders. The Church (diocese or congregation) seems to be working for its own wellbeing, and not for the wellbeing of the people they serve. Most of the church leaders still seem to operate on the model: “I give, you receive.” Collaboration and co-responsibility of the laypeople in the decision-making bodies and mechanisms is still lacking very much in our church leadership.

  What led you to submit your resignation before time and ask to be an assistant parish priest?

The only reason for my submitting my resignation from the office of the Bishop of Salem before the age of seventy-five is my deteriorating health condition. Hectic travel in the first ten years of priestly ministry, sedentary work routine for the last thirty years in the Seminary and as Bishop, have caused considerable damage to my backbone and spinal cord. It forces me to reduce the speed of my work and causes severe disturbances during public liturgical and other functions. I realized that I am not able physically to function fully as required for the good governance of my diocese. In this situation, in order to provide for the effective administration of my diocese by another qualified leader, I decided to propose to the Holy Father my resignation from the episcopal office. I take it as God’s will that my resignation is being accepted by the Holy Father.  Being basically a pastor all along my life, I chose to continue my pastoral ministry in a small way as much as my health permits. I proposed to my Superior to permit me to reside at Kruppur, a sub-station of Suramangalam parish, a village with thirty-two Catholic families and a large non-Christian population, so that I may be able to do some pastoral and missionary work, as much as my health permits, under the guidance of the local parish priest.

Would you like to share a couple of experiences—of prayer or relationships or ministry—that touched you and help you to remain focussed in life?

 Yes. The following experiences touched me deeply, and helped me.

The first experience is the beginning of my vocation to the priesthood. One evening back in 1969, after the completion of the school final year, I was discussing with my mother what to do next: go for higher studies in a college or join the seminary to become a priest. My mother told me: “If you go for college studies, you and your future family will benefit; if you become a priest, great number of unknown people will benefit. You decide who is going to benefit from your life.” This made me to opt to become a priest for the benefit of many people. This scene—ever fresh—of my conversation with my mother remains the criterion for making any choice in my life and in my ministry for the past forty-two years as priest and bishop: for whom my life is going to be beneficial.

A second experience:

In 2013, soon after my travel to Nagpur, I was badly infected with the H1N1 virus (known as swine flu). Six days of intense treatment did not yield the results expected by the doctors. They felt helpless. One night, at about 10.00, I went to the hospital chapel. I spent the whole night (till 5 a.m.) in intense prayer like Moses for his people or David for his child, abandoning my whole life in his hands: “Lord, what do you want to make of my life?” At dawn I just heard the gentle voice in my heart, “You have got to do a lot of work for me yet; go ahead!” The very next day’s tests showed excellent results and the doctor confirmed that I could go home the following day. It enhanced my belief in God, provident Father. This and many similar such instances in my life showed me that God acts when you abandon yourself in his hands.

Here is a third experience.

I always believed in collective decision-making from days of my priesthood. Even though it is not easy and often not most efficient, I have seen it bear very effective fruits. Once we had to plan for a big function in my diocese. Various committees were formed with persons responsible for each sector. Every detail was finalized in the meeting of all the responsible persons. In the course of preparations, however, serious differences of opinion crept in and it almost looked like that the function would not take place. I called for a meeting of the responsible persons and gave a five minutes’ orientation speech and then allowed the group to decide what to do. After initial exchange of arguments against one another, there evolved in the group a strong consensus, very different from our earlier decision, but beautiful. Each of the responsible persons vowed to work unitedly and make the function successful. Everything ended more effectively than initially expected. At the evaluation meeting after the function, all unanimously said that the function would not have been carried out if it was not for a collective decision.

Anything else you like to share with our readers?

A few stray thoughts for the readers:

Today everywhere the priesthood and religious life are painted with a dark shades due to several reasons. Because of this, the people in general have developed a suspicion with regard to these categories, instead of showing reverence towards them. This is affecting very much our vocation promotion for the priesthood and religious life. I would like to tell you: do not be shocked. A big number of priests and religious are still good and doing wonderful ministry. Don’t get discouraged and lose hope. Even this will pass. It is painful that the bad behaviour of a few is throwing dirty mud on all. We need to patiently endure.

Secondly, quality of life and ministry is needed today more than quantity of achievements. Let us be conscious of this in everything that we do. Life witness is the most powerful means of evangelization. Let our life speak what our words would like to convey.

Thirdly, let us come out of our comfort zones (institutions and structures) so that what we want to say is audible and attractive to the people of today.

Fourthly, it is high time to invent and discover alternative ministries to meet the people who are living in a fast-changing world.

Finally, to do all this, being deeply rooted in the Lord and living in a healthy relationship with our neighbours is essential, without which everything we do or say bears no fruit for the kingdom of God.

Bishop Sebastianappan Singaroyan is the retired bishop of Salem Diocese, Tamilnadu. He has a doctorate in theology from Pontifical Lateran University, Rome; M.A. (Tamil Language), M.A. (Public Administration), M. Sc. (Psychology) all from the University of Madras. As a priest, he was professor of theology and director of pastoral ministry at Good Shepherd Major Seminary, Coimbatore. As a bishop, he was the Chairman of the CCBI Commission for Proclamation from 2011 to 2015. He is a priest for 41 years and a bishop for 19 years.

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Special Days

Special Days: August Edition

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Aug 13: International Left-Handers Day

We focus on just one special day today, to help us understand those who are “different,” and some of the challenges they face. -Editor

This day is observed annually on August 13 to celebrate the uniqueness and differences of left-handers, approximately seven to ten percent of the world’s population, or about 708 million persons! Research indicates that men are more likely to be left-handed than women.

First observed in 1976 by Dean R. Campbell, founder of the Lefthanders International, Inc., the day was “declared” official in 1997, to raise awareness of the advantages and disadvantages these face in a predominantly right-handed world.

It wasn’t always “cool” to be left-handed. Educators and physicians used to advocate “retraining” left-handed children to use their right hands. Some of the methods they used in this “retraining” were cruel, such as tying children’s left hands down so they couldn’t move them. Or training them to be ‘ambidextrous, which literally means having ‘2 right hands’! Forcible conversion of handedness produces what psychologists call a “misplaced sinister,” and these unhappy people have miserable childhoods. Teasing by right-handed children and the sense of being different from others produces bitter humiliations, inhibitions, frustrations and self pity. Left-handed people seem more prone to depression and psychotic disorders, such as schizophrenia; and more likely to suffer from stuttering and dyslexia.

The notion of left-handedness as wrong is embedded in our language. For example, the adjective “sinister” comes from the Latin “sinistra” or “left hand.” In French, gauche means “left” and also, “awkward,” “clumsy” and “socially unrefined.” The word ‘left’ still has negative connotations: bad, dark, weak, incorrect. Right is thought to be good, saved, beautiful and correct.

Being a lefty can be very inconvenient. Most things are designed for right-handed people. Classrooms can be truly exasperating for lefties: those arm-contorting, wrist-wrenching desks, three-ring binders and spiral notebooks built for right-handed writers. It is far easier to pull a pen or pencil instead of pushing it across a sheet of paper. Drawing a straight line may sound simple, but it is more difficult if you’re doing it by pushing the pen instead of pulling it. Calligraphy pens and brushes, computers, even a pair of scissors were specifically designed for right-handed people; so also most tools, electronic gadgets, musical and surgical instruments, fixtures, cars. Toilet paper dispensers are virtually always on the right, as are the handles on most water fountains.

The left-handed face more challenges in learning to write. In many languages, including English, everything is written in left-to-right progression, which favours the right-handed. When writing with the right hand in left-to-right progression, it is easier to see every letter that has just been written, and there is no need to worry about smeared ink because the hand naturally moves away from the drying ink as the writing continues.

Why are people left-handed?  Some blame it on genes, or complications at birth. Children do not understand the difference between left and right until they are about six years old. However, a baby at its seventh month of life begins to favour one or the other hand. Until that age they are bi-manual. The right and left hands are not mirror images of each other. They take on different functions and tasks. In general, the dominant hand is responsible for fine-precision manipulations, and the non-dominant does the holding or steadying. For instance, when people clap their hands, most will cup their non-dominant hand and strike it with their dominant hand.

It’s high time to recognize the left-handed. They seem to be better at 3D perception, thinking and multi-tasking. These include luminaries such as Julius Caesar, Alexander the Great, Charlemagne, Leonardo da Vinci, Michelangelo, Raphael, Pablo Picasso, Napoleon Bonaparte, Albert Einstein, Queen Victoria; US Presidents: John F. Kennedy, Ronald Reagan, George H.W. Bush, Bill Clinton, Barack Obama; celebrities like Marilyn Monroe, Bob Dylan, Oprah Winfrey, Julia Roberts and Lady Gaga; musicians like Paul McCartney and Jimi Hendrix. (Michelangelo’s fresco on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel shows Adam receiving life from God through the left hand).

So, if you’re left-handed, grab your left-handed cup and make a toast to all left-handers, everywhere!

There even seems to be an Association for the Protection of the Rights of Left-handers. One of these “rights” is campaigning for the use of the left hand in taking oaths and saluting!


Sr Esme da Cunha FDCC

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Movie Review

MOVIE REVIEWS

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Pay it Forward
Director: Mimi Leder. Cast: Haley Osment, Kevin Spacey, Helen Hunt, Jon Bon Jovi. (2000. 113 minutes)

Adapted from Catherine Ryan Hyde’s novel, it presents the inspiring story of Trevor McKinney, a pre-teen schoolboy who initiates a practical way to change the world. Trevor’s mother Arlene is struggling with alcoholism and has to do double work to provide for the child. The abusive father has practically abandoned the family. A new social studies teacher, Eugene Simonet, changes his life. Simonet, a discerning teacher, opens his class asking the pupils “Think of an idea to change our world and put it into action.” Only Trevor takes up the challenge in earnest. He plans to do three important favours for needy people. Instead of a return favour, he would ask each recipient of the favour to “pay it forward,’ that is, to do similar favours to three others who should in their turn pass it on. Trevor takes a homeless drug addict home for the night, providing a bath and some money to restart his life. This enrages Arlene. The man in return repairs Arlene’s truck.  Trevor’s next task is to bring his mother and Eugene together, hoping to make them happy. But they are cautious about the friendship on account of the wounding experiences of their past, made worse when his alcoholic and abusive father returns home. However, in the course of time they realize that they have to take that risk in order to live meaningfully. Trevor’s third task is to help a timid fellow schoolmate deal with constant bullying from others. He understands that some people are scared to change their situations even when they know they are bad, giving up hope.  The boy grows into the realization that goodness is infectious and can change those who receive it. Trevor’s small “pay it forward” movement creates a revolution of compassion and charity. One of the beneficiaries of the movement is a Los Angeles news reporter who is mystified by a surprise gift of a car from a millionaire who was paying forward a favour he had received from a black man in a hospital. The reporter’s investigation makes him realize the great impact the movement has been creating. He interviews Trevor on his twelfth birthday, bringing public attention and gaining nationwide support. The movie shows how ordinary people can change the selfish world around them by simple acts of kindness and putting others before oneself. Goodness is never wasted, although we may not know the impact of our acts of kindness directly. The final scene is inspiring, sad and moving.

Homeless to Harvard: The Liz Murray Story
Director: Peter Levin. Cast: Thora Birch, Michael Riley, Robert Bockstael, Makyla Smith, Kelly Lynch, Jennifer Pisana, Aron Tager, Ellen Page. (2003.104 minutes)

This movie is the real life story of Elizabeth Murray, the famous American motivational speaker and teacher. Elizabeth (Liz) and Lisa Murray are brought up in New York in a deeply dysfunctional family. Though the couple loved their children, Liz’s father is an irresponsible drug addict who is also attached to TV quiz programmes. Her mother’s drug addiction is aggravated by her schizophrenia. The children do not have even proper food or decent clothes to wear to school. Liz has to earn her livelihood while still a child. She is very intelligent like her sister, but hates school because she finds herself out of place among the better off classmates. Both her parents are infected with AIDS through shared drug needles. When her mother is taken off to a sanatorium with tuberculosis and insanity, Liz is also moved to a government care home. When she is fifteen, she goes to live with her sister and grandmother. But there also the girls have to deal with a sexually abusive grandfather.  Liz runs away with a friend. But she reaches out to her mother when she learns that her mother is dying of AIDS. Her father lives on the streets. The shock of her mother’s death changes her.  Liz refuses to follow the tragic course of her parents’ life and returns to school, where she shows herself to be exceptionally hardworking, completing her four year programme in two years. Good at writing, she earns a scholarship from The New York Times to join the world-famous Harvard University in 2004.  Despite all that she went through, Elizabeth has no bitterness towards her parents; she felt loved by them. But the experiences of her childhood have taught her precious lessons for life.


Prof Gigy Joseph

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Book Review

BOOK REVIEWS

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The Gentle Art of Blessing: A Simple Practice That Will Transform You and Your World
By Pierre Pradervand (1998)

Pierre Pradervand was inspired to write this book from a deep personal experience. While volunteering in Africa with the World Hunger Project to end food problem by year 2000, he was sent away by some people in the organization’s leadership out of prejudice and hate. The deep hurt made him bitter and hateful. To overcome the nagging resentment, he tried spiritual practices, such as meditation, prayer, etc., but nothing helped. One day, while reading the Sermon on the Mount, the phrase “bless those who curse you” resonated in him. He decided to try this out. As he says: “On the spot, I started blessing the four people concerned in every imaginable way – in their health, their joy, their serenity, their finances, their family life, their work… I did it from morning till night.” He soon developed the habit of blessing everything and everyone he saw during his travels or connected with him in some way. He found that it was a healing experience both for himself and those who received them.  Once, while getting ready for a talk for youth in Switzerland on the theme of “Healing the world,” he received an unprecedented “gust of inspiration,” making him write the book; it “just poured through,” “just appeared” under his pen.

Pradervand notes how blessing is an ancient practice older than religions. It wishes good to the other person. Blessing means “to wish unconditional, total, unrestricted good for others and events from the deepest wellspring in the innermost chamber of your heart… to hallow, to hold in reverence, to behold with utter awe that which is always a gift from the creator.  He who is hallowed by your blessing is set aside, consecrated, holy and whole.”      Years after losing his job, Pradervand met the man responsible for firing him, and it turned out to be a totally joyful reunion devoid of any bitterness. For the author, “the Sermon on the Mount and Psalm 23 are some of the most beautiful non-denominational, universal spiritual messages.”   We can bless everything—the beauty hidden in material things, needy persons, as when passing a prison or a hospital, and, of course, ourselves too. Forgiveness is the precondition of blessing. The practice of blessing has sensitized him to the sufferings of fellow humans and developed in him an instinctive understanding of their needs. Sometimes it takes years to develop sincerity in our attitude while blessing.

Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead
by Sheryl Sandberg. (RHUK, 2013)

This book has received superb reviews. Sheryl Sandberg, the Chief Operating Officer of Facebook, provides some deep and honest insights into the questions of woman leadership in the world of today. Sandberg describes her experience as a pregnant woman struggling to balance career and family. She acknowledges the great progress in gender equality achieved by pioneering feminists.  But even today, there is only about 20% of women presence in leadership positions everywhere. It is not simply male dominance that bars the way of further progress. Women too have a share in it. Women are held back partly because they hold themselves back. One key issue for working women today is the challenge of balancing work and family. As she has seen in actual experience, “blatant and subtle sexism, discrimination and sexual harassment” are still there.  Statistics shows that “of 197 heads of state, only 22 are women.” Of the top 500 (American) companies, only 21 are headed by women. In politics, women hold just 18% of congressional offices. But there is much improvement in status over the past fifty years. Their salaries, compared to those of men, have improved. The solution is to negotiate like a man. While men are promoted based on potential, women’s promotions are based on past accomplishments. Lack of self-confidence and drive bars women from achieving what they can.  She notes too that a successful man is better liked than a woman of the same level. Successful women leaders are not as liked as their male counterparts. Sandberg suggests that “everyone needs to get more comfortable with female leaders, including female leaders themselves.” More productive relationships are nurtured when cooperation across the hierarchy of work is encouraged. Housework and parenting are to be shared by men and women if career and family are to be balanced.


Prof Gigy Joseph

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Letters

LETTERS TO THE EDITORS

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ENERGIZING & MOTIVATING
I have a heart filled with gratitude for giving me space in this illustrious monthly. Whenever I receive MAGNET, I do go through it and pick up those articles that interest me. I enjoyed reading my own interview! You are rendering a great service to the Church by energizing and motivating especially the priests and religious. MAGNET is a rich document which can be referred to at anytime. Keep up this good work.

Archbishop Thomas
Macwan of Gandhinagar, Gujarat

  RIGHT FOCUS
You did very well to turn our focus to the ecology question. We can become so caught up in the tragedy of COVID-19 that we forget that there is an even more pervasive tragedy going on around us all day every day. As always, thanks for the balance between practical day-to-day questions, and the deeper theological and spiritual issues that must be part of our lives as Religious.

Fr Francis Moloney SDB,
Sunbury, Victoria, Australia

 WHAT WE NEED TO DO
I congratulate you all on the manner in which you publish your magazine. It is prepared with care, precision, planning and with definite goals in mind. The contents are rich, relevant and enriching, both for personal and social-ecclesial life. In particular, I would like to mention ecology.

We have to develop the Christian spirituality of ecology.  People will take ecology seriously only if we teach them that it is a matter of Christian faith.

To love Jesus is to love creation. To love human beings as our neighbour demands that we also love things of creation as our neighbour. To violate, to abuse, to pollute and to over-consume things of nature is a sin against the Ten Commandments. We have to work out an eco-friendly interpretation of the Ten Commandments and of the humanistic teaching of the New Testament.

I think only when we regard to concern for ecology as an essential and integral part of the Christian faith, will the commitment to ecology be a regular feature of the Christian life.

Most Rev Thomas Dabre
Bishop of Poona

WE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE!
The word that captured me in the July issue was ‘environment.’  I find it very encouraging and interesting whenever the religious take up certain public issues, as, in this case, the environment.

The words of Pope Francis in caring for our Earth, entrusted to us by God, have inspired me. Often, as Christians, we seem to be more focused on the spiritual aspect of life, viz., maintaining good relations with self, with neighbours, loving the poor, etc., but we hardly realize that maintaining good relationship with the Earth is as important. As a kid, I was taught to throw rubbish in a dustbin and am sure everybody was, in a school. But have we been dutifully throwing waste in bins? But, when such a duty is spoken of by the church, I am sure it does more of a conscience-stirring. And this is why my appreciation to the religious for becoming more vocal towards genuine public issues like the environment.

I also would like to quote Kevin Sullivan (MAGNET, July issue): “… I can’t be an ‘environmentalist’, but I can be a ‘conservationist.’ I can’t stop global warming, but I can stoop down to pick up trash …” If every Catholic or at least those reading this start to think and act this way, we will be able to transmit the ripple effects to those around us.

Rita Zou
Imphal, Manipur

MAGNETIZED INSTANTLY!
I came across MAGNET accidentally, but I was magnetized by it instantly. It appealed to me so much that I began to read it immediately. I read most of the articles of that issue in one go. MAGNET bears quality all through: quality paper, layout, articles that are relevant and meaningful.  Needless to say that Fr Joe Mannath is a synonym for quality. MAGNET stands out for everything a mag can possess—quality communication, quality content and quality presentation.  The articles are written in a simple and readable style. Yet one cannot be untouched by its energy and buoyant spirit. It is a must read for the religious to add vigour and optimism to their life and ministry. I would like to thank especially Fr Jose Parappully for his “Psychology and Life” Series.  The vocation story of Fr Kevin Ward (“The Twain Shall Meet”) was heart-stirring. Congrats for the wonderful service to the religious of India and the world!

Fr Shilanand Kerketta SDB
Jharsuguda, Odisha

UNDERSTAND AND SUPPORT OUR MEDICAL WORKERS
The article “Self-care for helpers” has brought to light the palpable reality of the ‘frontliners’ – doctors and health workers who are exposed to enormous stress, physically, mentally and emotionally. The two pictures in the article are apt and speak for themselves.

The world indeed owes a great debt of gratitude to this band of daring persons who risk their precious lives.  Never will humanity be able to fully fathom the services they render for their fellow beings. Yet, we know that sometimes they have been maltreated by sections of society because of the measures they adopted to prevent the spread of the disease. Sometimes they were side-lined or deprived of their basic necessities, or even to made to spend the night outdoors.  Yet they have continued to show utmost dedication.

The author also makes one realize that, no matter how great the extent of human potential,  everyone has to acknowledge the inevitable limitations.

The suggestion to avail the ordinary means to promote health of mind and body is invaluable. Ultimately, the author points our attention to the Lord, who alone can truly restore wholeness to our body and spirit.

Sr Lydia Komuhra FMA
Assam, Guwahati

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