Letters

A TRUE DISCIPLE

I am grateful to Fr Joe Mannath and the editorial team of magnet. The article ‘still running at 85’ by Fr M A Joe Antony SJ was insightful. Sr Mary John is truly a motivating figure in my desire to be a fervent disciple of Christ. I am also invited by this inspiring religious to raise my voice against women’s exploitation and work towards women;s empowerment. A heart felt gratitude to the MAGNET team for publishing this article.

Jesuit Novice Reuben Melvin D’Souza

TRUE CELIBACY

The article on friendship in celibate life by Fr Jose Parappully SDB is definitely an inspiration for religious men and women. Celibacy should not make us hate the complementary sex. It should rather be of assistance to all the religious in their loving the Lord more intimately, following the Lord more closely and serving the Lord more passionately. I am indebted to MAGNET for the beautiful article which has filled me with positivity.

Princeton, Jesuit Novice, Bengaluru

A VERY APT THEME

Extremely happy and grateful for MAGNET, September issue.

A very apt theme, indeed: BE A GOOD HUMAN. We all need a good dose of it …

In the bargain, while becoming the disciples of the Lord – an excellent human person- we forget to become, exactly what he wants us to become: Good Human Beings

I do hope all Priests and religious will read this issue…and assimilate a good dose of it.

I wait eagerly for the arrival of MAGNET every month and it has been a great source of enrichment.

I really hope and pray that quality will be maintained: substance of the articles, and theme would be relevant, and of course layout would be attractive as it has been  always…

Celine D’Cunha FMA, Shillong

WORTH WAITING FOR

It’s worth waiting for MAGNET and the article on “Becoming a good human being” stresses this fact. Many experience a dark phase after joining the religious congregations. One needs to realize that at times God makes us walk through the dark tunnels in order to make us savour the brightness waiting for us at the end of the tunnel. Being a novice, I was touched by this article of Fr Joe Mannath SDB. It has boosted my spiritual life and stimulated in me a desire to be an ebullient novice.

Abhishek, Jesuit Novice, Bangalore

This is with reference to “Become a good human being.” The cover story strengthens my call to be deeply rooted in Christ . It helps me to be committed, compassionate, loving, caring and humble rather than jealous; available rather than self-centered, for our fellow beings. Let me sincerely congratulate Fr Joe Mannath, SDB and everyone at the MAGNET for inspiring, energetic, and powerful articles.

Thank you!

Erik Kerketta

This is with reference to cover story of September ‘become a good human being’ by Joe Mannath SDB. The article bluntly pointed out areas where religious should focus more. All the points mentioned are relevant and some are bitter truths too. I do have felt many of these in my religious life so far. The practical steps to tackle Negative feelings like jealousy were really insightful. All the ten guidelines have to be taken for prayer and further reflections. I thank MAGNET for sharing these insights which helped to introspect myself.

Thomas J Philip S.J., Thiruvananthapuram

EQUALITY IN LOVE

A great explanation is given on chastity, which taught us, religious, to be prudent in our friendships. To a religious, especially for me it is to love and serve everyone equally. From this article I learnt to maintain the purity of heart and thought. Hence I sincerely thank Fr. Jose Parapully SDB, and the editor for publishing this article.

T.Crumblish Anthomen S.J

This is with reference to the article “friendship in Celibate Life” by Fr Jose  Parappully SDB (MAGNET, September 2022). I agree with the point “Friendship is one of the greatest ways in which God comes to us”. True friendship is beyond everything. We, humans, are social beings. Whatever life we choose to live, we need friends. We need someone to share our love. Only friendship is not life, but there is no life without friendship. A Trustworthy person in one’s life will be instrumental for one’s success in their life. Jesus said greater love than this no one has than to lay down one’s life for his friends. It is easy to give one’s life for one’s friend, but it is difficult to get a friend who gives one’s life for one’s friend.

Sugumar Jose, Thiruvananthapuram

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A True Christian

Magnet is a splendid monthly which I look forward to reading regularly. The article “I was in prison” by Fr MA Joe Antony S J, was worth reading. I was inspired by Mr. Bruce Kent. Indeed he was a peace hero. Now at this present context he motivates me to be a true Christian by being a peace maker and not be a trouble-maker. A heart filled with gratitude to the Magnet team for publishing this thought-provoking article.

Akshay Kumar, Jesuit Novice, Mt St Joseph, Bangalore

A Magnet!

Thanks a lot. Your magazine is a Magnet!  I like the lay out and the articles are insightful and  inspiring. I’ve tried to promote by asking others to subscribe and telling my students to read for their growth…

Fr. Anthony (address not in email)

The Five Whys

This is in reference to “The Five Whys Technique.” “Why?” is an enlightening question to all those who do not look within themselves in times of failure. I sincerely thank Fr Jose Kuttianimattathi SDB for revealing the secrets of problem solving through the question “why.” I’d also like to thank the Editor and team for publishing such informative articles in your magazine.

S.Vijay SJ, Hyderabad

About the Whole Issue

‘Let the children come to me for theirs is the kingdom of God ‘. In other words, this could mean that we learn from the children  what  the kingdom/real happiness is and it would belong to us.

Thanks to MAGNET for inviting us to be childlike in order to be really free and happy in life. A child attracts or disturbs even the demon in a positive way and creates in us a desire to be creative and makes great people to become their disciples in order to make them still greater.

 Children stories (COVER STORY1-3) are much more educative and inspiring. They teach us what sharing, generosity  and sacrifice means (little elder sister) and much more what prayer(Coles) is to them because God speaks to them (James) and how to put Our Father in practice (Domnic) and that they, as children, have deeper experience of God. Adults should not act as adults in the presence of their children but become childlike (‘Unless you become like….) to experience the warmth and freshness of our own being.

Fr. A.E.Ekka unravels the secrets of the growth of the young through identifying the talents, challenging them to actions and guiding and helping them (esp. the poor)to choose the right way of living through proper education and  profession. Parents and teachers have a special and responsible role to play.

Fr .Scaria invites the children of the second stage of childhood (seniors) to enjoy life like the children looking at the wonders and beauty around us instead of looking back regretfully and sadly. They are called to enjoy the present like the children and be creative artists. Let us realize the BEAUTY lying deep within us..

Thanks to Fr. Jose K who has proposed the magic of 5 WHYs, which is a counselling process to find out the root cause of an issue or problem or conflict or concern or failure etc. There is a root cause and solution to every problem.

I hope and pray that on 21 August , our Senior Citizens were remembered fondly by their younger generation. It was also  the birthday of St. Francis de Sales (21.8.1557), who has said that holiness can be attained by any and all at all stages and states of life.

Thanks for Fun and more: The son is 15  and dad is  51 =66!! Right!!.

 Well, my share of apple is in the basket.

 10 differences are identified but I am still looking for the one who hid the words or I must change my specs!

Thanks and all the best, Joe!

May MAGNET continue to be Magnetic, Magical and Magnanimous.

Fr Vincent Swami MSFS, Pune

Inspired by Bruce Kent

This is with reference to “I was in prison….” on pages 10 and 11 of the August issue. Amidst the ongoing catastrophic war in the world there is dire need of the promotion of peace across the world. I am very much inspired by the commendable work for peace in the world by Bruce Kent. Kent lived as a true Christian. His love for humanity was so immense that he could even sacrifice his priesthood and become a full-time man for others. Total service for humanity is more Christian than holding a priesthood like Pharisees, the hypocrites. I am very grateful to Fr Joe Antony for writing about Bruce Kent, a very good example for true Christian life because his life story can indeed inspire thousands of people across the globe to work to impede the wars which are at the cost of innocent people.

Pilat Narzari SJ, Udalguri, Assam

The article by Fr Joe Antony ‘I was in Prison’ Is very interesting and motivating to live a committed life for Christ. We need to emulate the values from the life of Mr Bruce Bent which is the embodiment of Christ. This article has rekindled me to love Jesus passionately. It has been a source of inspiration to promote peace in the world. I am indebted to Fr Joe Antony and the editorial team for this article.

Frewin D’Souza SJ

Thumba Trivandrum

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May Magnet cover page is magnifying and electrifying, in other words tempting/inspiring.

Inspiration (quotes) on Celibacy has excellent quotes of various persons.

Editorial: In his unique way, the editor puts across the beauty and meaning of Consecrated Life, quoting and inviting live testimonies.

Sr. Lini reveals that there are very good and kind persons in and around us who are willing to make sacrifices in order to reach out to the poor in need.

‘Encouragement does wonders’ by Fr. Jose Kuttianimattathil (Tips for Superiors), is very encouraging and enlightening.. as it is supporting someone struggling and affirming one’s achievement; his practical tips to encourage are very stimulating.

Sr. Navya has dealt judiciously and compassionately with the case of expectation or demand made by religious leaving the society/congregation. Today it is happening more and often. Congregations/Societies need to be alert.

Life on the Margins: That there is a search for feeling dignified or feeling whole even in the so called worst of the persons in the society is well exposed in the article ‘Looking for wholeness’ by Bro. Carmel. Is this life of prostitution the opposite of or enemy of celibate life or are these persons held up or those who choose  to live such life out of necessity or force opposites and enemies to  religious persons today! Food for thought!

Celibacy today: In all his simplicity and honesty, the auhor reveals and opens the Pandora box of our religious life, based on three vows  and exposes its possible irrelevance  and relevance as well in today’s context. He gives a transparent understanding of human sexuality and how to understand and handle it carefully, safely and contextually, for  both women and men religious. The statistics that 53% + of children have gone through sexual trauma is an indication and caution to better understand the individuals, specially joining religious or priestly life and guide them in their true vocation they are created and meant  for. His explanation on what Celibacy is and what it is and how to be a celibate by life is   very mind blowing and simply enlightening with various live examples. He defines celibacy in simple words as ‘A HEART RULED AND SUSTAINED BY LOVE’ for God and people. Celibates are to be the  inspiring models and joyful witnesses people can look up to and get guidance from. Well, the deep question he invites us to pose to ourselves is whether we are mere spinsters and bachelors or really joyful religious persons!! Who and what we are passionate about matters a lot in our celibate life. Is the present style of vocation promotion merely to gather a work force,  a type of recruitment process to manage the institute and  to work with a hook  or is it  to serve with love? Thanks, Joe, for this enlightening discussion on the most crucial aspect of life and for answering certain basic questions on celibate life. The answers are down to earth and realistic.

Testimonies are really enriching and inspiring and so we have had in the May issue many personal journeys shared well by various religious persons:

Sr. Esme in her personal journey as a religious fascinates the readers with her vocation story and with the natural way of responding to the Call and finding ways to stay on even in turmoil with conviction. There is a call in and to every person to live the plan and will of god.

Bro. Peter Swaminathan very spiritually motivates us in his personal journey as religious, quoting well the life style of the two nightingales of the indian catholic church—Mother Teresa and Bro. Andrew, who lived the corporal works of mercy and  spiritual works of mercy respectively..

Fr. Panneer Selvam, in his journey as a priest,  states that it is being faithful to   and living the spirituality of  one’s conscience is a way to live religious  and celibate life, guided by the Holy Spirit and friends and companions. Let us wake up and intrude our conscience.

In ‘Why be celibate,’ Bro. Amalan  has manuscripted well saying that celibacy is a gift rather than a choice. It is a liberating gift as it leads to a greater love of God and neighbour without comparison. Celibate life is totally based on the daily encounter with God for a meaningful relationship with people entrusted.

The Doctor writer of ‘a call to greater love’ testifies beautifully  that we all belong to God and Him alone, as it is a grace of God. Celibacy is in being in love with God and there is joy in living this life even in our work and in our relationship with people. Her relevant reference to the great spiritual friends, St. Francis de Sales and Madame de Chantal is very timely as the Missionaries of St. Francis de Sales and Salesians of Don Bosco and others  celebrate the Year of Saint Francis de Sales on his 400^th death anniversary (1622-2022). It is worthwhile reading his two classical books Introduction to Devout life and Love of God.

In the sixth and the last testimony in this issue by Mr. Gangai Victor on ‘Something happened’ speaks very explicitly and powerfully about something that really happened  in his life and  of the conversion he went through in becoming a charismatic. It has transformed his daily life, his marriage and dealings and relationships at home and otherwise. He has found God in his life and placed his life in God.

‘We are all humans –and sisters and brothers’ by Fr. Joe Antony invites our focus and attention on ordinaries and little people, for they too matter like the tiny stars in the sky. He brings persons like Regis and Marc into broad daylight for they follow the Master who said , ‘Whatever you do to the least of my sisters and brothers, you do to me.’

Fr. Alex G, on ‘Finance’ has very succinctly explained how to handle accounts and how to be accountable to Trust matters, among the various conflicts of interest which may certainly arise. It needs honesty, transparency, detachment from self and selfish interests and caution. Thanks, Alex, for inviting the trustees to be responsible persons.

Fr. Jose Parappully  in and though his lesson on Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD), continues to prove to be an author par excellence and authoritative on the matters of psychology. It is a must to learn to respect and understand persons as they are from their perspectives and temperaments. It saves relationships,

On the whole, the May 2022 issue of  MAGNET is a very  comprehensively formative one, touching all spheres of life, spiritual, social, human, physical and psychological, intellectual, sexual, relational etc. Kudos and three cheers (in this hot summer!) and congratulations to the Editor.

Healthy International Day of Nurses (12 May) and Happy International Day of Families (15 May)!

Fr Vincent Swamy MSFS, Pune, Maharashtra

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Excellent Guidelines on Budgeting

Magnet is really magnetic.

I went through all the articles of March issue of MAGNET. “Budget: Financial Planning” by Fr. Alex Gnanapragasam S.J is very informative and a road map to achieve specific goals. Budget helps us to plan, prioritize the essentials among the basic needs. Money is a necessary evil and if we have to be transparent and make our limited resources a positive good, planning and budgeting are very essential. Fr Alex has very clearly brought out the kinds of budget, its activities and goals, how it has to be prepared. Once a proper Budget is prepared, we can move in the right direction. That is our spirituality. I think we all agree that Budgeting is the beginning of wisdom in financial management. We need to discern before we begin to spend our hard earned money. Fr Alex’s articles give us the role of our economers:  how to make a standard  j+udgement on what is basic and what is discretionary.

Sr Emy Adapur FS

Paduvary, Byndoor, Karnataka 576214

Top Priorities: Correct! Financial Mismanagement: True!

I’m sorry for this very late feedback on your excellent article “Religious in India Today: Top Priorities.”

I’m writing this a few minutes before I leave for the airport to Dumaguete City to accompany the Carmelite Sisters on their Holy Week retreat.

I couldn’t forgive myself if I didn’t express my deep appreciation of your great and very useful insights regarding the actual living of our consecrated life.

The ten aspects you treat in the article really ask for discernment and urgent response.

The examples you give are very real. They are our day-to-day experiences as religious.

Your observation about how we usually pay more attention to trivial practices of poverty, like requiring the juniors and the scholastics to submit a detailed account of their expenses at the end of the month, along with tickets and receipts, is so true. At the same time, we waste a lot of money on unwise and mismanaged construction projects.

I know of a congregation in the Philippines that spent USD 10,000,000 to build a gym which is now practically useless.

Another congregation imported a crane for its school-building construction project. It could have just rent one from the vicinity.

I also like your comment on collaboration with the laity. The ideal is to collaborate with them and not to ask them to collaborate for us.

I have to stop here; it is time for me to leave for the airport

Fr Samuel Canilang CMF, Manila, Philipppines

Touching and Thought-Provoking

As usual, MAGNET is very thought provoking. I loved both your editorial and your article on poverty. It mirrors all of us who have committed ourselves as Christians and as consecrated people and speaks about our fear of giving too generously of ourselves. It is as though we give only in measured quantities as we are fearful. This I feel is one of the obstacles to living poverty more honestly. But we are in serious danger of becoming counter witnesses if we do not do this courageously. And we, the organised church, have to take a brave and courageous look at ourselves and what we stand for. Else we are in danger of becoming irrelevant and extinct.

I loved some of the beautiful and poignant human interest stories: the one by Sr. Theresa Viegas about the heroic woman who lost her own child and was then parenting two other children, all the while looking like an ordinary person externally, though she was doing such a remarkable, extraordinary thing! The testimony of the doctor from Sion Hospital was very real for me as a medical professional as this is something that I could easily identify with and see everyday. Thank you also for writing a tribute to healthcare workers.

The example of the very real battle for saving the life of a baby in NICU caught in the midst of s social maelstrom was very touching and heartwarming. Fr Jose’s article on synodality is particularly apt for our times and will hopefully help us navigate away from a top heavy system, into a more inclusive one.

I loved your positive and enlivening examples of poverty heroically lived, giving joy to both the person living it, as well the one witnessing it. The write-ups by some of your authors on actual persons was very thought-provoking, such as the one about the environmentalist Jane Goodall. Your article on suicides was painful to read but is very necessary and something that we cannot hide from; thank you for sharing it. Hopefully knowing and being aware is the first step in preventing at least some of the suicides.

Dr Ann Agnes Mathew, Bangalore

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MAGNET – a precious and unique gift to everyone who has subscribed for it (I wish all could/should subscribe and experience the power of transformation Magnet brings), truly is a wholesome and nutritious food for the mind and soul. I make sure to read from cover to cover and re-read  again and again some articles and it has been a great blessing for my personal life as well as for my mission. It’s so magnetic with lovely, warm, inspirational, enjoyable and relevant articles written in simple  language, a great help to enjoy and relish them with cartoons, appropriate pictures and layout all done with  precision, passion and perfection. My sincere grateful thanks and appreciation to Fr Joe Mannath and his excellent team of columnists and others for their unique contribution to make Magnet our favourite magazine!

As in every issue, unique with its theme and content, the month of March issue brought in a very apt and relevant theme: “Indian Religious Orders: Top Priorities Today.” The Cover picture, the excellent Editorial and the Cover story by Fr Joe Mannath with life stories of concrete people is indeed wonderful, thought-provoking, soul-searching reflection, self and community evaluation and renewed commitment to our First Love. Thank you, Fr Joe, for this much-needed reminder and I do hope that Indian Religious Orders, in a busy world, will not miss to focus on Top Priorities Today!

“He Understood God’s Dream” by Fr M A  Joe Anthony SJ on Archbishop Desmond Tutu is an excellent tribute to a man for all seasons and an inspiration to all peoples. In a few words Fr  Joe Antony has brought out the best in this legendary figure of our times. Truly he is quoted and will be quoted and remembered for generations to come. Our National Education Policy 2020 also quotes him. “Inclusive, good-quality education is a foundation for dynamic and equitable societies.” ~Desmond Tutu (NEP 2020)

It was a pleasant and inspirational reading of ‘The Cafasso Squad’ by Fr Leon Cruz SDB, which was indeed a lovely curiosity and happy to know more about Fr Joseph Cafasso (Don Bosco’s Confessor) and the creative initiative of starting one of the groups of the Salesian Youth Movement and making the young people involved in Prison Ministry. Young People love social commitment and adventure, and I am sure it will usher a new phase of Prison Ministry India (PMI) through the young people who are creative and daring. Kuddos to the initiators of “The Cafasso Squad.”

“How the poor love one another” by Fr Mathew George, sharing his personal experience, was truly heartwarming and inspirational. Indeed, the poor are our teachers and we have so much to learn from them. In our modern world when money, wealth, power and market make the survival of the fittest and elimination of the weakest a sad reality, the poor keep their humanity alive and teach us to become better human beings. Thank you, Fr Mathew George. Your articles are always inspirational. Congratulations for the commendable loving service to the poorest of the poor!

‘Taking the First Step’ by Bro Carmel Duca MC (in fact, his every article under “Life on the Margins”) is indeed amazing, inspiring, full of humanity. He is great at touching the lives meaningfully among the people whom he ministers. I loved those beautiful last lines – Sometimes I wonder, if our founders and foundresses analysed and rationalised their vocation, and minutely planned all the details, they would not have started what they were being called to do. Instead, they just took that first step and kept walking. So true! I thought of Don Bosco! Thank you, Brother Carmel! You are an inspiration!

“Characteristics of a Synodal Community” by Fr Jose Kuttianimattathil SDB is a great help in understanding, participating and living the Synod and Synodality. They are practical and easy to understand and live. Looking forward for the characteristics of a synodal way of exercising authority in the next issue!

While we warmly welcome the new National Secretary: Sr Elsa Muttathu PBVM, our grateful, sincere thanks and appreciation to Fr. Jose Mannath for his loving and dedicated, fruitful and quality service to National CRI. I really hope and pray that MAGNET, which has been one of the greatest initiatives of National CRI, will live long and maintain quality for a very, very long time. Best Wishes!

Sr. Celine D’Cunha fma
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Two Articles that Helped

Thanks for the inspiring article, “Give proper feedback” by Joe Mannath SDB (Magnet – January, 2022) which we need for our life today. I know that feedback from others means a lot. But when I have to give feedback to others, I become so pessimistic. Instead of appreciating and affirming, I usually ignore or become indifferent. This pains the other, and our relationships are curtailed. At times there is a desire to appreciate but we are prejudiced. The ten basic rules are a great help to be positive and to give good feedback for one’s growth and for the growth of others.

The article “The Religious Superior’s Complex Role” by Alex G., SJ (Magnet – February, 2022) gives a lot of information about the role of superiors. We all are aware, yet there are times when we are not acting accordingly. It’s not only superiors; every religious has a responsibility towards one another. The superior cannot do anything on her own; she needs community and the community cannot exercise anything without the superior. Both are important for a good community building and serving the other. Superiors have greater responsibility towards temporal administration, religious communities and in the apostolic works. Thank you for giving us more clarity in exercising our responsibility which will surely make our communities a loving home and family.

Hrudaya Mary JMJ, Bangalore, Karnataka

Candles, Interview, Ministry

You Joes seem to sweep the honours, as I find Joe Anthony’s account of the power couple illuminating Candles in the Dark an inspiring narrative, which will surely motivate some readers to do likewise.

The interview with Alena Fernandez is also very stimulating, and I enjoyed her clarity of thought and vision.

Matthew George’s article on ministry is another energizing, down-to-earth story.  I loved his last paragraph, with two nuggets in the first and last sentences!

Conrad D’Souza CFC, Shillong, Meghalaya

All the Articles

I found all the articles very well written.

The one on human trafficking was very necessary and heart wrenching—very difficult to read. But that was the whole purpose, isn’t it, to not let ourselves become complacent?

Loved your editorial, as I truly believe that we the people of God have to more actively work for unity and bring together all people of good will. If forces for evil can work together, how much more so should forces of good work together? I too agree that this increasingly difficult in a world full of escalating divisiveness.

But Magnet is a good tool to combat that.

The anti-average slogan is very relevant for us Christians today and was great.

I liked most of the articles, especially the one by Fr Jose Kuttianimattathil on a listening church and synodality, your article on when not to take decisions, the one on mental health and the sister superiors’ article on thinking together and how important discerning decisions in a congregations and provincial level is crucial for all the members growing together and not just taking unilateral decisions.

Dr Ann Agnes Mathew, Bangalore

Evil of Child Trafficking

I wish to thank the MAGNET team for throwing light on social issues such as child trafficking. It is sad to see how the heinous practice of child trafficking is prevalent in our society. Child trafficking is a stain on humanity. The evil of trafficking strips children of their dignity and future. I was inspired by the works of some Good Samaritans, engrossed in protecting and rehabilitating trafficked children. The article, written by Sr Lini Sheeja MSC really exposed the pathetic situation of children. It is our social responsibility to curb this evil and support those who have been doing this work. Thanks to the MAGNET team.

Rushikesh Makasare SJ, Vinayala, Mumbai

Helped by Many Articles

As always, the present issue also benefited me. The second paragraph of the editorial and the column “Helps for Growth” helped me for a personal verification. The article on Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder by Fr Jose Parappully too helped for an introspection. The article on child trafficking wrenched my heart and kept me on my knees making my own, the sufferings of those innocent children. “Meeting God” by Sr Nambikkai and the Testimony by Royston D’Souza, the Candles in the Dark, the interview with Sr Alena—all lifted my heart to the Lord in thanksgiving. Together with me my community members also thank Magnet for presenting my vocation story. A very special thanks to Fr Joe for reading and editing it well as only you could do it.

Sr Mary Tancy PCPA, Adoration Monastery, Chelacombu, Kerala

Unique Every Month

You have a unique issue every month. The articles are filled with colorful and eye-catching drawings, which makes them stand out from other publications. There are plenty of timeless and priceless articles, stories, etc., in the magazine. I want to express my sincere appreciation to the editor and the entire team for their hard work and painstaking efforts. The magazine “MAGNET ” keeps me glued to it and I look forward to future issues with eager anticipation.

Kakumanu  Teja, Vijayawada, A.P

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ENRICHING

I am a Jesuit scholastic doing my juniorate studies in Kerala. I am happy to say that your magazine is so enriching.

The cover story ‘Accompaniment: the heart of animation’ by Fr. Joe Mannath SDB (November 2021) is enlightening and enriching. The article is a personal wake-up call to all the consecrated people to enhance their mission with Christ’s love. As a seminarian, it is a great means for me to know the miracle of love and to introspect my life with this regard. Also, I was very much touched by the real-life incidents which are mentioned in this article. I understand that love is more powerful than punishment and that in no way counseling is the same as spiritual direction. Thanks to the editor for such a good article in this time of Advent.

1. Vineshragul SJ, St. Xavier’s College P.O, Thiruvananthapuram, Kerala 695 586

A WAKE-UP CALL

The article “The Little Match Girl” by Ms Janina Gomes was a heart touching one. It was indeed a call to introspect our Christmas Spirit. When it comes to Christmas, we often tend to give importance to the celebratory aspects, and forget to see the Infant Jesus out there suffering in the damp and cold world in the form of the migrants and the poor. Ms Janina points out one of the fundamental problems that our Christian  faith faces in the contemporary world. There is a general trend creeping into our faith that makes us concerned more about the height of the “Star” or size of “Santa Claus” than the suffering neighbour. It is indeed a timely reminder, a call to awake and celebrate faith without losing its meaning.

Rins Padamattummal SJ, Thiruvananthapuram, Kerala 695586

STUDY SKILLS

I would like to thank the Magnet team for this valuable magazine. As a new reader of this magazine I feel that it is for all who are marching towards success. I would like to mention the article on study skills by Fr Joe Mannath SDB. It is indeed fascinating and encouraging . The questions raised in this article really make the readers aware about their own Study skills. This article is helpful to all kinds of Students to study well and to update their study skills according to the science of time which is important in this modern era. It is also helpful for those who are struggling to study, those who are struggling to find their own talents and self-esteem. Congrats to the Magnet Team for all the young generation like me.

Scholastic Immanuel SJ,   St. Xavier’s College, Thiruvananthapuram, Kerala

ENCOURAGE QUESTIONS

I profusely thank Fr Joe Mannath SDB, for his article “Encourage Questions” which speaks about the passive education system in India. Our education system has made the students empty vessels where many facts and information are stuffed by the educators.

 As the author rightly puts it, we as educators must allow the students to ‘question,’ which is the crux of all innovations. In my opinion, the western education system grants several platforms for students to question, reason, research and find the solution on their own. While students in India are often spoon-fed with the required resources on the particular subject.

This is woefully diminishing the creativity and reasoning faculties of students. To build an innovative and better future, we must allow our younger generation to question and think outside the box.

Anson Alex SJ, Trivandrum, Kerala

LIKED IT VERY MUCH

Greetings from Rome!
I just finished reading the January edition of MAGNET. Of course, I liked it very much. The cover stories were very inspiring, and really got down to the basic thing–we need to be witnesses of the God we know, and know intimately. Thanks for these reflections.

As always, Bro Carmel inspired me. I especially liked the picture of the pink swings on the US/Mexico border provided by the Design Centre in London. Talk about thinking outside the box!!

I found the article about healing of mental patients very practical and inspiring. Last evening, I had a nice talk with a student here at our Collegio (in Rome) from Ghana who is finishing a licentiate in psychology at the Greg. I will share the issue of MAGNET with him.

Your article on giving the proper feedback was again one of those very practical articles at which MAGNET excels. And I’m so glad you included Francis’s Beatitudes for Bishops. They are pretty good beatitudes for any Christian disciple as well!!

Finally, I found the article on narcissistic personalities very interesting and very true. I have known a few in my lifetime!!

Best to you for 2022. I’ll look forward to the February issue of Magnet in a few weeks!

Prof. Stephen B. Bevans SVD, CTU, Chicago, USA

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Gripping—to the Point of Tears

The November issue of Magnet is brilliant with something in it for everyone. I found the whole issue very readable and interesting, with some articles gripping me to the point of tears. I am always moved by the articles of Bro Carmen Duca,  describing his very tough ministry that he relates to us with such panache and grace.  I always appreciate the contributions of Crystal and Kevin Sullivan which are insightful, rich in meaning and relevance to our daily lives.

A testimony that really touched my heart was the one written by Alma Barla on her vocation story. Surely she was tested by fire and has emerged victorious. It is a great inspiration to all of us who are still foundering in our lives.

Regarding my suggestions, I was wondering if there could be a corner for the lives and works of great writers, because so many of them lived very challenging lives themselves.

Janina Gomes, Thane, Maharashtra

A Vein of Gold—and Much More

November issue of MAGNET:

• The editorial: brilliant, as usual. You sure take time, I imagine, to get that right.  Great work, Joe!
• In Br Carmel, you have struck a rich vein of gold!  Nothing more need be said.
• I can vibe with a lot of what Sr Nambikai says in her breath awareness article.  I like her very apt quotes from various sources to back up her statements.  A pity that, in the 3^rdcolumn of the article, she moved into the 2^nd person rather than sticking to the 1^st Speaking in the 1^st person carries more conviction as she spoke with authority in the earlier paragraphs!
• Fr Leon’s — a nice simple article, certainly needed for our youth. A gripping introduction, his comparing the two Copernican revolutions.
• The Cover story:  A much-needed one. You are blessed to have the knack of choosing the right topics to cover, Joe.  I liked your breezy introduction, and the questions on distinguishing between Spiritual Direction and Counselling. Your backing up statements with concrete examples, and especially your personal anecdotes, enhance the readability.
• Once again, I wonder if you could please avoid those ‘shoulds’ like on p. 18, 3^rd Finally, that “They” error on p. 22, col. 1, is not expected of a top-class magazine like MAGNET.

Bro Conrad D’Souza CFC, Shillong, Meghalaya

An Energy Booster

I picked up the Magnet magazine for the first time as a novice just because of the quality and attractive cover page with magnetic colours. Since then, It’s one of my favorite magazines, not just because of the colourful pages, but the rich content throughout the magazine. I felt the magazine widens my knowledge with the experiences of many religious who went through challenges, makes me creative in thinking, and it’s an energy booster to many religious to live a committed life as the magazine deals with various current issues that helps us to know and get updated. You make us young religious to be active as you are a joyful religious. May many more find the worth of the magazine.

Sr Trenitha UFS, Mangalore, Karnataka

Inspiring, Challenging Doctor

The article by Fr Joe Antony S.J., on the theme ‘a courageous doctor, a man of faith’ is an inspiring, motivating and challenging one. The life of Dr Timothy P. Flanigan is outstanding. As we are struck with the pandemic his life – who worked during 3 epidemics – must be inspiring and challenging to serve the people of God.  As Dr Flanigan goes out of his way to help those who are in need it is a call for us as religious to help our neighbours who are in need.

Saul Abhishek SJ, Thiruvananthapuram, Kerala 695586

The Need of the Hour

I would like to thank you for continuously publishing very good articles in MAGNET, especially that of Fr Joe Mannath SDB, on “ACCOMPANIMENT, THE HEART OF ANIMATION,” and “EXPERIENCE OF SPIRITUAL ACCOMPANIMENT” by Crystal and Kevin Sullivan (November 2021). This is indeed the need of the hour. The role of the religious superior and the formator is very clearly explained. Going through the lengthy articles is very interesting, enjoyed reading it and written down “Three levels of Animation” in my personal diary, which I need to constantly make use of in my responsibilities. Our main duty is to accompany those in our care, lovingly, joyfully and with a certain degree of competence. If we give time for loving accompaniment, all of us will grow in maturity, freedom and in faith.

Sr Juliana D’ Souza SJT, Puttur, Karnataka.

Entering the Heart

I would like to thank Fr Jose Kuttianimattathil SDB for the vibrant article ‘Listen with the eyes’ (Magnet, Nov,2021). In this digital world, we become close-minded and shrink into ourselves. This article highlighted the importance and relevance of the art of listening. I realized that listening with the eyes involves more than just listening to words, but entering the hearts as well. Thank you MAGNET.

Praveen Babu SJ, Thiruvananthapuram, Kerala 695586

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Very Good Quality

This letter is long overdue, as I am a regular recipient of the complimentary copy of Magnet, your monthly publication.  Thank you very much for sending them month after month without fail.

I go through most of the articles and I must say that they are of a very good quality and truly relevant to the time and context of the month of publication. It contains articles meant for every one – priests, religious and even lay people. The magazine is attractive and its design and lay out with good quality photos and graphics make it unique. The paper quality too is good – not too cheap nor too expensive – but more than enough for all of us to feel like going through all the pages.

My hearty congratulations to you and your team.

Bishop Jose Chirackal, Tura, West Garo Hills, Meghalaya

Thank you! Continue! Publish an International Edition

I would like to thank you for continuously publishing very good articles in MAGNET, especially that of Fr. Jose Parappully, entitled “Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder” (June and July 2021) and of Joe Mannath entitled “Learn a Bit of Counselling” (July 2021). People, especially in this time of pandemic, come to priests for advice or simply to have someone to listen to them. They come with various problems, difficulties, painful experiences, etc. For priests like me whose field is not psychology, Fr Parappully’s article is very helpful. It gives basic information about PTSD and offers different healing approaches and methods. Pointing out that PTSD is treatable is reassuring; it’s “good news.” The self-healing approaches and concrete steps he describes are extremely helpful. I find this article to be very pastoral. It presents hard facts but, at the same time, offers hope and concrete solutions. The article on counseling is also quite helpful. All priests need some knowledge and skill in counseling. People from all walks of life come to us priests when they need to be listened to, to be enlightened, to be guided, to be advised on what to do, etc. We must be able to respond to these needs competently and effectively. THANK YOU and CONTINUE with this great apostolate.

MAGNET is a journal not to be kept on library shelves. It is to be read and placed where it can be readily accessible whenever someone in ministry needs to re-read an article useful for his/her work or for someone seeking his/her help.

By all means, come up with an international edition. Include the Pacific in your target area. It is a periphery where many religious sisters and priests do various ministries. They will certainly benefit a great lot from MAGNET. The digital edition is the most effective this time, especially of the pandemic

Fr Samuel H Canilang CMF, Manila, Philipppines

Suggesting a Topic

I would like to suggest a Topic which is missing in Magnet magazine. This topic on Formation…

Can you write some topics about FORMEES ….How do they have to prepare themselves for Consecrated Life? What are the attitudes they need to develop? How do they discern their vocation?T

this will help our formees. Thank you

Bro. Sagar FSF, Holy Family Brothers.

Disturbing Trends in Education

Kudos to  Magnet over the  magnificent  August cover page on Reading Habit. Books taking wings lifting you from the mundane daily grind, buoying up  your spirits to the sublime heights, to the  fabulous realms of the mind and spirit. The Word became flesh and dwelt among us,  and inspiring writers will help you trace your way back to the life crowning Word.

Some bookshops as well as some book publishing companies are closing down today. This alone is disturbing  evidence of the fall in the reading habit of people.

The problem has its roots also in some  schools which labour under the misconception that computers and mass media make libraries outdated and irrelevant. In the craze for scoring high marks in public exams, library periods are slashed and borrowing of books from libraries suspended in some schools. General knowledge tests are banished to limbo.  Linguistic skills take a beating from the undue weightage given to technology today.

Today’s education can produce efficient technocrats but few  good thinkers and writers on the art of living,  like the classical authors. Lack of exposure to imaginative writing and good authors stunts imagination and emotional growth of the young. Poor acquaintance with the wisdom of the ages produces a mediocre  crop of leaders in society.

Good readers make good writers. A look at current school and college annuals will lay bare the poor standards of writing and a marked bias towards colourful visual display.

Good reading challenges our lifestyles. So even a highly impactful magazine like MAGNET is rarely thumbed by many religious . Doing commands a higher premium over  being in contemporary religious culture.

Fr Matthew Adukanil SDB, Tirupattur, Tamilnadu

Excellent Issue on Seniors

I just finished reading the July issue of Magnet, on Seniors. As always, very excellent articles, especially the cover stories. I am always inspired and made a little uncomfortable by Brother Carmel’s column–he is amazing, and he really brings to life the humanity of the people among whom he ministers. I had never heard of the Sisters of the Destitute, but I was also inspired by that interview, as well as that with the Little Sister of the Poor (I have heard about that order since I was a young boy–my grandmother really admired them).

I loved the line in your editorial about not just adding years to your life, but adding life to your years. Good advice to me at 77!! And I loved all the tips for growing old gracefully–or gratefully as one of the quotations said. I was also struck by the sister who said that perhaps one of the reasons senior religious are unhappy is that they had seen their lives as a function, and now that they can’t DO things they don’t feel they matter. Again, good advice for me.

Among many other things, I loved the two additional ways of becoming a saint–gratefulness and assurance of God’s love for us. Sainthood isn’t something we achieve, is it? It’s really recognizing how much grace is around us in so many ways. I often quote the line of Gregory Boyle (the Jesuit who works with gangs in Los Angeles): “God delights in us–that takes some getting used to.”

Congratulations on an important issue of Magnet!

Prof Steve Bevans SVD, Catholic Theological Union, Chicago, USA

Addiction is not a Solution!

I feel the cover page topic ‘A Secret, Widespread and Destructive Addiction’ was wonderful to read and reflect upon. Truly it was a magnet for me where I couldn’t resist but read when I had just glanced through the contents. Youth, and in some cases married couples, find it difficult to vanquish this addiction called Pornography. In most of the cases, as I find it, the significant reason is loneliness. When we don’t find any means to overcome this loneliness, we inevitably fall into such an addiction. The time has come to spread the awareness that addiction doesn’t become a solution for our loneliness. I am grateful to the MAGNET editorial team for bringing about such awareness to the people through this magazine.

Darwin D’Souza,  Bangalore.

Lover extraordinary

The enlightening article (Volume V issue 9 and 10, October 2021) titled “Lover extraordinary” on Br Charles Cutlot, who later becomes Br Shantidas is quite amazing. His life has stunned me and made me want to give myself for the marginalized. I’m very grateful to the editor for publishing and also Fr M.A Joe Antony SJ for writing this electrifying and enkindling article which has motivated me and lit a sparkle within me to help the vulnerable.

Frewin D’Souza, Mount St Joseph, Bangalore

From Porn to Purity

This is with regard to the article published in  MAGNET (issue 09 and 10 dated October 2021). This issue covers very helpful and thought-provoking articles on addictions. I was very happy to come across the topic ” From Porn to Purity” by Fr Aneesh Chacko SDB. This particular article gave me a lot of insights to live a pure life as a religious person. I was moved by the sacrifice made by Mr Aron Ralston to live his life and for his wife. It has shown me how to be free from addictions and not to feel guilty overtime rather than seek help from others. This leads us to live a pure life centered around Christ. I am grateful to the editor for suggesting many practical ways of handling our addictions. A billion thanks for your thoughts on this topic, which is the need of the hour for all younger generations.

Scholastic Pradeep D’souza  SJ, Vidyaniketan, Dharwad

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LIKE A NOURISHING TABLET

When “Magnet” is not around for reading, I miss it a lot. The magazine is like a condensed tablet that will sustain one for days. Its contextualized articles, well written in simple and logical way, are a delight to read. In the June issue, reading about the struggles many had to go through during the Covid 19 Pandemic, and equally matching generous service of the medical persons and others—this was heart-rending. I like the inspirational quotes found  on page 2.They are very catchy and profound. I found this monthly column very useful—Tips for Superiors. Whether formally named superior or not, one has to play that role  on and off. I wish the magazine Team all the best and hope many will read and benefit from it.

Sr. Marian Mathew PBVM, Kanjoor 683575, KERALA

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