In this poignant article, Sr Lini sheds light on the reality of child sexual abuse within the family by presenting three true incidents. She describes the details of the abuse suffered by these innocent children, highlighting the devastating and far reaching consequences it has on their physical, emotional, and psychological well-being, as well as their overall growth and development. Through these incidents, Sr Lini underscores the urgent need for collective action to protect children from sexual abuse, and stresses the critical role that religious can play in safeguarding the children under their care.
Child sexual abuse is a critical issue in India, particularly when it comes to abuse within the family. Sadly, the problem is often shrouded in secrecy, and a culture of silence exists around it.
The Case of Anju (Name changed)
Anju, a 14-year-old girl from Kerala, was sexually abused by her father from the age of six while her parents were working in the U.S. When I first met Anju, I was heartbroken to see how disturbed the child looked. Anju’s mother was always present and did not allow me to speak to her daughter alone. I could tell that Anju was scared in her mother’s presence. So, I asked to speak to Anju privately, and the child eventually opened up. Anju’s father used to work the night shift at the supermarket, and her mother would go to the shop early in the morning as her father returned home. It was during these early morning hours that Anju’s father sexually abused her, a tiny innocent bud. As the years went by, Anju’s behavior changed, and when her mother finally found out about the abuse, she accused Anju of lying and blaming her father unnecessarily. Eventually, Anju’s father admitted to the abuse, and her mother rushed to India with her daughter for treatment.
Sr Lini Sheeja MSC
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