It is often said, “If you really want to know yourself and make progress in life, ask your enemies.” Enemies play a crucial role in our lives, offering insights into our weaknesses and keeping us alert. We have to be thankful to them for this unpaid job. They spend a lot of time and energy tracking us and informing us about our ‘areas for improvement.’ While their methods may seem harsh, we must acknowledge the value of their observations. Embracing criticism and evaluation is essential for personal growth and achievement.
As parents, teachers, animators, mentors, or formators, giving feedback is a challenging yet indispensable task that needs to be done responsibly. However, it is crucial to remember that the recipient of feedback is at the center of the process. Thus, it is our responsibility to deliver feedback with compassion and accountability, an act often referred to in religious contexts as ‘sharing truth in charity.’ Here are some guidelines to help you provide feedback effectively:
Richard Mascarenhas, SJ
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